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Jeff99
01-21-2007, 04:06 AM
hi guys and girls

do u ever feel like it just to hard an whats the point?

what i mean is we have all these amazing things about ourselves an sometimes it just seems so hard for people to see past the whole speech thing.As for me i don't stutter very much at all anymore since the Mcguire Course some people think i'm lieing when i tell them i have a stutter but from time to time i get stuck on a words or somethings when i'm not using my training lol to lazy sometimes.

but i remember when i was really bad it felt like i was trying so hard to talk an people would hear me talk an wouldnt take the time to get to know me they would see i stutter an that was it they didn't want to know me.

i'm trying to work throu my probelms to overcome all the sides of my stutter not just the talking part. your comments would be wonderful!!!

cherokeeprinces
01-21-2007, 02:29 PM
hi guys and girls

do u ever feel like it just to hard an whats the point?

what i mean is we have all these amazing things about ourselves an sometimes it just seems so hard for people to see past the whole speech thing.As for me i don't stutter very much at all anymore since the Mcguire Course some people think i'm lieing when i tell them i have a stutter but from time to time i get stuck on a words or somethings when i'm not using my training lol to lazy sometimes.

but i remember when i was really bad it felt like i was trying so hard to talk an people would hear me talk an wouldnt take the time to get to know me they would see i stutter an that was it they didn't want to know me.

i'm trying to work throu my probelms to overcome all the sides of my stutter not just the talking part. your comments would be wonderful!!!

I know exactly what you mean I was trying to help a certain person on this forum but I think they felt like I wasn't making an effort to get to know the real them when I really was. They mnade me feel like my support wasn't welcome all because they were too self concious and wouldn't take the time to trust and put their faith in me.

Jimmy169
01-21-2007, 05:45 PM
I know how you feel. It's like a big circle of depression and anxiety and then of "whats the point" and then move on with your life. I'm kind of at that point. It's almost relaxing to think, whats the use, ya know.

happy7117
01-21-2007, 10:13 PM
We work and work to make ourselves more fluent. But the stuttering never truly goes away. It's like what is the use of all this work we put into wanting to be fluent and it does not ultimately defeat the stuttering?? Excuse my language but it is a !

cherokeeprinces
01-22-2007, 12:05 AM
for someone who wants that Adam u sure dont want to try that hard to gain confidence if you are so scared to talk to someone like me