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macman
04-25-2007, 05:03 PM
Hi,
I havent been on her for a while but my speach has been getting worser and worser and its got to the point where I am scared to open my mouth.
Do anybody have any help to stop me feeling real bad.
Work is bad everyone is picking on me callin me name and picking on me cos i cant speak proper.
i want to look for a other job but am dead scared to try as havin a interview would scare me shitless.
soz for the long post but feel a bit better for this.
macman..
I think you must try to overcome the fear of speaking to others ,if you let the fear hold you back you are not going to improve your job situation ,just go out and apply for jobs if you dont get it then you dont get it just try another ,I know this is not a easy thing .And dont let people at work pick on you and harass you ,stand up for yourself ,if people think you are going to fight back they think twice about messing with you .I dont know wher you live but here in the US if I was picked on at work I would get proof then file a complaint then if it happens again I would contact a lawyer and sue the company !
floraleffects
04-26-2007, 01:26 PM
ummm... i guess the best thing 2 do is 2 ignore ... let them pick on u n show them it doesn't mean shit .. i mean honestly how much do they know about stuttering ... they learned 2 speak properly not cuz they were smart or anythin ... it's sth ur body does naturally by the age of 5 wen ur still too young 2 have conscious control over anything ... wut makes u better or worse than all the rest r ur potential n capabilities n wisdom .. and btw .. u urself can use them to pick on other ppl if ur smart enough 2 choose the right time. As for finding a job somewhere else .. i dun think it's a solution at all n u'll always remember u switched cuz u failed .. don't ever let urself feel that way. Ur colleagues already know u stutter .. i think it's a better environment than somewhere else where the whole thing starts again ... this is as bad as it gets, so know it can only get better
Host of Chaos
05-04-2007, 08:56 AM
ello macman.if anybody laffs at me then ijust ignor it as i feel that makes me a bettur purson then they r.i have times when i talk poor 2 n fele low n unhapyy n other times when fimngs go well.suppos thats life
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