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chrish15
06-20-2008, 03:52 PM
Hey, well i'm getting married tomorrow. I'm a little scared about my speech when we say the vows. Its a repeat after me format so that should help hearing the phrase first. Theres going to be over 100 people there so i starting to get nervous. If anybody has any suggestions or support that would be great. I'm sure it will be fine, but the nerves are killing me.

JDRow
06-20-2008, 04:27 PM
Congratulations!

My girlfriend and I are getting married in December, and I'm already nervous about the ceremony. I'd like it to be very small but I have a big family and her parents want to invite everybody they know, so that's not going to happen. We've only had one meeting so far with the priest (we're getting married at her family's Episcopal church) and haven't talked about details yet, but we are hoping that we can say as many of the vows together as we can, which would make it a lot easier for me.

I'm trying not to worry too much about that, though, and just focus on it being about the commitment I'm making to my girlfriend and not about how much I stutter.

I understand why you're nervous, but I'm guessing that nobody there is going to care if you stutter or how much. They're there to see you getting married and to celebrate with you. Good luck!

nate
06-20-2008, 05:12 PM
Have your best man stand behind you and say the vows with you under his breath.
Thats what i plan to do if i ever have to get married.
Shit i'm getting a panic attack for you mate. Good luck with everything.

Nate

emily445455
06-21-2008, 12:11 AM
Congrats!! It'll be fine :) I didn't talk very loud...mostly cause I was about to cry, lol, so if I stuttered (I don't remember if I did or not) only my hubby, the pastor, and maybe my sister (maid of honor) heard it. :)

chrish15
06-23-2008, 12:36 PM
well thanks for the replies, everything went great. I had no problems at all what so ever. I think since I repeated right after the priest it made it easier since I could hear it then just say the same thing immediatly. Now were off on our honeymoon, so things are going good.

Idiotina
01-20-2011, 02:27 PM
I have a similar situation. Can be discussed.

adamo
03-31-2011, 04:39 AM
congratulations!!