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indiankid
11-09-2005, 12:56 PM
hello i am writing this to you in hope that people who used to be like me can find some hope.. stuttering is not a permenent problem i dont know what causes it but i know what i went through and how i started to overcome it.. at infant school i could barely even write my own name or do simple math the stuttering problem didnt develop until year 4 primary school about... here i was ridiculed for talking in public and stuff the kids kept on laughing because they didnt understand.. one day i speaked perfectly and then one kid goes ''ur lucky u didnt stutter' and when i went to secondary school is began worse i could barely even talk in public.. even the teacher made fun out of my speech one goes u had trouble saying ur name didnt u... i can only imagine what caused this problem i guess i was a guy who didnt have many friends and was unconfident.. even my brother imitated my speech and stuff and that made me angry i wish i was dead and stuff.. and i remember once i was taken to doctor because of it.. he goes there is no hope.. the nurse said her sister outgrown it though.. for a while i attended sessions to overcome my stammer but i stopped attending soon.. the way people treated me was like i had a problem or something.. but essentially everyone stutters at one point or another.. now i have outgrown some of my stuttering i think about what i want to say carefully and then say it.. it helps.. and my doctor needs a slap because he said there was no hope and the fact that i am a support teacher and give students help on their work without stuttering says something.. i am also at uni..

so dont give up there is a light at the end of the tunnel.. just remember ur gifted

indiankid
11-09-2005, 12:57 PM
i am even looking forward to giving a speech soon :) as part of my uni project in front of 42 people

Standingtall
11-09-2005, 02:50 PM
Hi Indiankid, welcome. Are you a Native American or a real Indian? Forgive the question.

studentdoc
11-09-2005, 08:14 PM
I don't get it... how'd you overcome?

indiankid
11-09-2005, 09:01 PM
indian as in my relatives r from india...

the stuttering went away as i developed into a adult i am 20 now and it happens very minorly

Standingtall
11-10-2005, 02:21 PM
Thanks for answering my questions. You are one of the lucky ones. My stutter has greatly improved as I got older and when I'm on a roll, I don't stutter, but when I start a new sentence, I may have trouble starting.

indiankid
11-11-2005, 11:30 AM
Thanks for answering my questions. You are one of the lucky ones. My stutter has greatly improved as I got older and when I'm on a roll, I don't stutter, but when I start a new sentence, I may have trouble starting.

most of the time it happens when someone is unconfident.. its a common problem at uni my friend stutters sometime aswell.. this is what normally helps..
if u stutter on certains words try replacing them with words that ur confortable with

for example if you stutter on the word ''should'' replace it with ''could''

Vermillion
11-11-2005, 07:47 PM
That means you are avoiding words, which makes you far from overcoming stuttering.

indiankid
11-13-2005, 07:50 PM
i cant make my problem go away 100% but i try to use a strategy which works for me

Bobby
11-14-2005, 04:25 AM
have u got a word for "remember", it seems to be my worst word.

studentdoc
11-14-2005, 07:12 AM
have u got a word for "remember", it seems to be my worst word.
recall or keep in mind