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Count
08-22-2010, 04:25 PM
Hello guys and girls,

I haven't been around this forum for the total age of God, but I thought if others can publish their success/suffering stories, so can I.
A year ago I attended a very professional speech therapy (self-procled, if you ask me) which lasted a week. Most of the exercises involved a special breathing technique, that, according to the therapist, is primarily used by actors and opera singers. To make it short, I and the other three participants ended up breathing like Pavarotti probably did before performances for the whole week. Did it help make my speech impediment go away? No. Though I did in deed practiced breathing all the months after the course.

Now I don't do it anymore. Not due to laziness, but to another feeling: gladness.
I was most glad the day I found out I hardly stutter anymore in private situations and can talk with most people almost completely smoothly. Yes, there are letter jams in my speech every now and then, but the overall effect is a positive one, and after 12 years of medium to intense private and public stuttering, I can be happy (at least regarding my speech). In all important conversations during the past year I could say my name without getting stuck. I've even had good times with two great women (not at the same time).

Over the years I've read about plenty of stuttering theories, mostly by scientists, that made me wonder if those guys ever had made direct contact with a stutterer. I've even come across misguided would-be arguments about stuttering by people who should know better.
After all this time I have come to many conclusions about stuttering and finally found it to be a purely neuropsychological issue, that can be made go away suddenly by invisible forces of nature too interconnected to be understood. If anything, I've eventually stopped pretending the world is free of conspiracies and realized liars do not fear the truth, if there are enough liars; that the devil is just one man with a plan, but evil, true evil, is a collaboration of men deliberately distorting the truth to make it fit in their ideologies. But greater than their lies, the truth wants to be known, and it will. It'll come to them, as it's come to me, faster than the speed of light.


Thanks for reading.

PS: Could be I slightly lost the thread.

Bruce
08-25-2010, 02:11 PM
Hello guys and girls,

I haven't been around this forum for the total age of God, but I thought if others can publish their success/suffering stories, so can I.
A year ago I attended a very professional speech therapy (self-procled, if you ask me) which lasted a week. Most of the exercises involved a special breathing technique, that, according to the therapist, is primarily used by actors and opera singers. To make it short, I and the other three participants ended up breathing like Pavarotti probably did before performances for the whole week. Did it help make my speech impediment go away? No. Though I did in deed practiced breathing all the months after the course.

Now I don't do it anymore. Not due to laziness, but to another feeling: gladness.
I was most glad the day I found out I hardly stutter anymore in private situations and can talk with most people almost completely smoothly. Yes, there are letter jams in my speech every now and then, but the overall effect is a positive one, and after 12 years of medium to intense private and public stuttering, I can be happy (at least regarding my speech). In all important conversations during the past year I could say my name without getting stuck. I've even had good times with two great women (not at the same time).

Over the years I've read about plenty of stuttering theories, mostly by scientists, that made me wonder if those guys ever had made direct contact with a stutterer. I've even come across misguided would-be arguments about stuttering by people who should know better.
After all this time I have come to many conclusions about stuttering and finally found it to be a purely neuropsychological issue, that can be made go away suddenly by invisible forces of nature too interconnected to be understood. If anything, I've eventually stopped pretending the world is free of conspiracies and realized liars do not fear the truth, if there are enough liars; that the devil is just one man with a plan, but evil, true evil, is a collaboration of men deliberately distorting the truth to make it fit in their ideologies. But greater than their lies, the truth wants to be known, and it will. It'll come to them, as it's come to me, faster than the speed of light.


Thanks for reading.

PS: Could be I slightly lost the thread.

hi,

great to hear that your stuttering has really improved.

you said " After all this time I have come to many conclusions about stuttering and finally found it to be a purely neuropsychological issue, that can be made go away suddenly by invisible forces of nature too interconnected to be understood. If anything, I've eventually stopped pretending the world is free of conspiracies and realized liars do not fear the truth, if there are enough liars; that the devil is just one man with a plan, but evil, true evil, is a collaboration of men deliberately distorting the truth to make it fit in their ideologies. But greater than their lies, the truth wants to be known, and it will. It'll come to them, as it's come to me, faster than the speed of light."

it sounds as if you have worked it out yourself, that is, in your own way you have come upon the cause for you. You said that it is purely neuropsychological, that is just a theory but continue to accept this as being true. You have come upon the fact that you have had people in your life who were not to be trusted and you have stopped projecting this onto the rest of the world which for the most part is not true, most people are good people and not like the bad people you knew so it is good that you trust people again. And you have realized that truly bad people always stay bad and that if they are acting good, well then, they are just acting. And God or the devine will teach them the truth and you do not have to take care of them, God will take care of them and you are not responsible for them and can take care of yourself and move forward free of these bad people to embrace the good people of the world unafraid.

0000
08-28-2010, 02:35 AM
thank you for posting and congratulations on your success!

tahur shaikh
09-01-2010, 09:02 AM
Yes ur right. I think 99 percent of cases are neuro psychological. Even 100 percent confidence that i can overcome and speak fluently can remove 50 percent of ur stammering. I think the most important drawback of confidence and acceptance therapy is initially the person stammers even with a positive attitude of mind. Hence its important for that person to continue his calm and confident attitude over a period of time which will definitely bear fruit in future.these 99 percent cases will definitely speak fluently in future.
It may be easy to say remove ur fear as i have personally experienced it but there is a technique to remove it. Think the actual situation in which you are is a dream and say confidently. Im sure ul say atleast with a better percentage of fluency. I have got this idea after watching the film inception. Any way u can also think what will the person do even if he hears me stammer just a few giggle and over. U should realize that its my life and will do whatever i want to and try the best possible ways to overcome it
U will see the results over a period of time. Speak slowly whatever may the situation with a calm attitude and enjoy ur life with confidence because its who wants to be happy with ur life and not the one who giggles

Bruce
09-05-2010, 08:49 PM
tahur,

i don't see where you got the fact that 99% of people who use your idea will be successful with your speech.

then on top of it you tell us where you got the idea from, the recently released movie Inception which just came out which means you just started to do it yourself and this movie is science fiction!!

i can only hope that you need so badly to believe that your newly found ideas to act like you are in a dream will work and so you come up with this 99% figure to ;MAKE YOURSELF BELIEVE IT !!!

to act like you are in a dream is no way to live your life.

bruce