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Keyo
12-18-2010, 12:13 PM
Hell Everyone.. I didnt log on the forums since a very long time although i was in love with this forum 2 years ago.. damn i was such a troll, and as many of you people i came here to feel that am not alone in this world, and that there are people that are like me and really ''deeply'' understand what is it like to be a stutterer.. and offcourse i also came here to look for an answer to quit my suffering everyday.

Somehow the answer i was searching for was always invisible for me even though i've read too many things about techniques/methods/drugs curing stuttering.. or at least diminishing it just a little bit.
See, sometimes fishermen throw their pole far in the sea in order to get big fishes.. but if they really just looked under their legs they'll find a really BIG fish even bigger than all the fishes that he was trying to get..

My Stuttering was at times very severe that i couldnt say a word.. literally, at other times it was moderate.. but it was never mild.. ever.
Days passed by, and somehow i got so busy with my life, and started giving Stuttering much less attention.. and eventually as soon as i started talking and getting deep in the conversation with every time with paying less and less attention every time i spoke the stuttering kept disappear on its own and became very mild that even old friends that i've never seen in a long time, when i saw them again, they asked me ''when did u get cured?'' and i kept having the same question every time i met an old friend..

What am trying to say is inspite of the fact that i didnt get cured 100% which is to be honest will NEVER happen and thats a fact i took for granted but i learned how to ignore it.. and trust me there are great results u'll notice as soon as you take your first step in ignoring the problem and just not give it much of your attention and not crave for a holy cure that'll come overnight.. this is just wrong..
Live your life people, get involved, face problems.. solve them.. it'll make your feel better as a better person and will sure help you overcome your fears as a stutterer.. dont care what other people think, just dont.. and dont try so hard to impress someone.. and finally think of yourself as a normal healthy Person and not a stutterer.. coz as long as you get yourself out of that circle (am a stutterer, am different) i promise you amazing results..

Now am married for almost 7 months.. and am having a baby soon ;)
I would be lieing to you if i told you that am not afraid.. we are humans afterall and actually i am afraid.. i just dont wanna think about it and give it much of my attention.. as repeating this will only take me down

I Hope i've been of some help to you guys..
One love for all my brothers and sisters and all the stutterers in the world.
may god be with us all.
CHEERS :)

xenon
12-31-2010, 04:54 PM
Thanks keyo for inspiring all of us.

You have great encouraging story.

And congrats for your baby.

Hope you get a great healthy and sweet baby, god's greatest gift to you.

Keyo
01-10-2011, 04:39 PM
Thanks Xenon.. I really wish all the stutterers including me to realise that life is so short to worry about one thing like stuttering, and start living without letting this problem stand in our way to happiness.. its our life after all and we are the ones who decide which way it goes..