Tell me what to do .. (Part 3)

[kghayesh]

Hi,
Sorry about making so much fuss about this :( I am sure you want to know the news though :D.

Yesterday, we were supposed to meet and everything was ok until suddenly i found out i have a family commitment. So, I called her to say i am sorry. This is like the 6th or 7th date I decline !!!! So, now she got mad at me and she keeps saying i am a big mouth.

Just an hour ago, She was telling me to go out with her. I kept hesitating and thinking (as usual) until she told me she's going with another guy :mad: She is really pissed off me now. It is understandable of course and if i was her i would have been so pissed off too.

Now I don't know what to do. I thought of telling her that what kept me so long from going out with her is that i have a silly stutter and that i didn't want to ruin the date. (But, this way I think she'll feel i am a complete jerk !) Or, I can just tell her i am sorry for just any excuse and then go meet her. That time, maybe she will figure out why i was postponing the date :( (I don't know how will it feel for her then)

I am sure she is not interested in me now as before. Although when we chat online sometimes i feel the excitement of before. She is a really nice girl and i don't want to act stupid in front of her (not sure if i already did !!!) She just told me "I am so mad at u"

*please tell me if i am a jerk*

[bignick]

OK, here is my personal opinion on this.

Its time to be completely 100 % honest with her, she is pissed off with you now, be honest, tell her the reason you have been putting off is because you want to go out for a date but dont want to spoil it with your stutter. you have absolutely nothing to lose doing this. One of two things will happen.
1. she will forgive you, you will go out on a date and have a great time.
2. She will not forgive you, tell you to forget it and then you get on talking to other people.

Thats just my opinion.

Nick

[Standingtall]

Your a Jerk!!!!!
I echo the words of my experienced friends and let her know. Make sure you let her know it is not her, it is you, who has a silly stutter and that the rest of you still works properly. Lay all your cards on the table and see what happens. Good Luck.

[Jonte]

keep us updated mate

[kilumanati]

just tell her about your stutter, if you really like her and eventually go out with her she will find out anyway, she's probably getting the wrong idea - thinking you are just stringing her along

[xinhai]

Hey, I'm usually a nice and calm guy...but...

GO TELL HER YOU ING STUTTER, EXPLAIN TO HER WHY U DECLINED THE DATES, NOWWWW, GO DO IT ING NOW OR I GO OVER N KILL YOU. TELL HER THE TRUTH, GO NOW!
Obviously she likes you very much, she prob likes you too much to even care about your stutter. Plus, don't you EVER, EVER make yourself lose another chance at happiness, I've done/said crazy things to girls that i liked VERY MUCH but didn't like me back. Go tell her NOW, PLEASE, if not for yourself, for me and everyone that cares about you on this forum. Nothing shall stand in our way to happiness. God speed.

[xinhai]

Why don't you speak your mind xinhai? :D

haha, power of three, if you were a girl id marry u :D

[Standingtall]

haha, power of three, if you were a girl id marry u :D
Don't give him any ideas. lol

[Standingtall]

Hey, I'm usually a nice and calm guy...but...

GO TELL HER YOU ING STUTTER, EXPLAIN TO HER WHY U DECLINED THE DATES, NOWWWW, GO DO IT ING NOW OR I GO OVER N KILL YOU. TELL HER THE TRUTH, GO NOW!
Obviously she likes you very much, she prob likes you too much to even care about your stutter. Plus, don't you EVER, EVER make yourself lose another chance at happiness, I've done/said crazy things to girls that i liked VERY MUCH but didn't like me back. Go tell her NOW, PLEASE, if not for yourself, for me and everyone that cares about you on this forum. Nothing shall stand in our way to happiness. God speed.
Wow, I would be on the phone after reading this, even if I don't even know her.

Yeah, what happened, there are a few people who are keeping trace of people's happiness.

[kghayesh]

Hey,
Sorry I didn't keep u updated. I was kept busy these days and I totally forgot u guys here !!!

I will make another new post (part 4) to start another clean thread. So, check out the news there