kghayesh
08-30-2006, 02:08 PM
Hey,
Sorry I didn't keep u updated.
Finally, I decided to tell her. I did so the night before the date. We were chatting online and i told her i wanna tell u something i don't really share with anybody. And i started telling her then suddenly the computer restarted :mad: !!! When I signed in again, I found out she's not there !!!!! What an unexpected thing to happen. But, she knew that I have some speech problems.
Anyway, I met her the next day. What was an ugly start to the date was that I was terribly late ! We talked for about 1.30 hours. I think that was fairly good for a first date. But I know i wasn't that impressive at all like I am online. And maybe she felt it. I didn't do much talking and sometimes I was afraid to start talking about something new coz i was just didn't like to stutter too much in this first date.
She didn't comment on my stuttering then and she tried to listen without interruption (I hate people who interrupt u and try to complete the words for u).
I was waiting to see her response after that date. It was not that perfect end for a date. But, she didn't dump me and block me though. We just talk on but not as warmly as before the date. The reason is obvious of course. I don't think she accepts me as a boyfriend but maybe as just a friend.
I don't think we are much compatible as personalities, we have many things in common, but maybe our personalities aren't much going in harmony. But she's a nice girl and I like chatting with her. She looks good too ;)
Some people tell me that this refusal was not for stuttering. It is about my personality. Maybe it is a good point but the other thing is that stuttering did affect my personality !!!!
Sorry I didn't keep u updated.
Finally, I decided to tell her. I did so the night before the date. We were chatting online and i told her i wanna tell u something i don't really share with anybody. And i started telling her then suddenly the computer restarted :mad: !!! When I signed in again, I found out she's not there !!!!! What an unexpected thing to happen. But, she knew that I have some speech problems.
Anyway, I met her the next day. What was an ugly start to the date was that I was terribly late ! We talked for about 1.30 hours. I think that was fairly good for a first date. But I know i wasn't that impressive at all like I am online. And maybe she felt it. I didn't do much talking and sometimes I was afraid to start talking about something new coz i was just didn't like to stutter too much in this first date.
She didn't comment on my stuttering then and she tried to listen without interruption (I hate people who interrupt u and try to complete the words for u).
I was waiting to see her response after that date. It was not that perfect end for a date. But, she didn't dump me and block me though. We just talk on but not as warmly as before the date. The reason is obvious of course. I don't think she accepts me as a boyfriend but maybe as just a friend.
I don't think we are much compatible as personalities, we have many things in common, but maybe our personalities aren't much going in harmony. But she's a nice girl and I like chatting with her. She looks good too ;)
Some people tell me that this refusal was not for stuttering. It is about my personality. Maybe it is a good point but the other thing is that stuttering did affect my personality !!!!