So...there is a girl at my bank that...

[sst]

Originally Posted by vigilant3

no no, you ignore topics of people that are brutally honest

What, that you have some hangup about two guys or two girls adopting kids? Because it's gross, right? Oh, they are going to indoctrinate kids into the homoual lifestyle? Kids need a mom and dad otherwise it's not right? Even though being stuck in the adoption system for years with no home is a terrible fate I wouldn't bestow upon many people? But two guys or two girls just shouldn't be allowed to partake in that particular situation.

I never ignore topics, and I love to debate. But what's the point when you have your mind set one way, and mine the other (correct ) way. Going around in circles gets tiresome. But hey, thanks for letting me know not everyone in Canada can be cool. I'll have to keep that in mind for when I emigrate there someday hehe.

Really, no hard feelings at all. You seem like an okay guy, really.

[vigilant3]

Originally Posted by sst

What, that you have some hangup about two guys or two girls adopting kids? Because it's gross, right? Oh, they are going to indoctrinate kids into the homoual lifestyle? Kids need a mom and dad otherwise it's not right? Even though being stuck in the adoption system for years with no home is a terrible fate I wouldn't bestow upon many people? But two guys or two girls just shouldn't be allowed to partake in that particular situation.

I never ignore topics, and I love to debate. But what's the point when you have your mind set one way, and mine the other (correct ) way. Going around in circles gets tiresome. But hey, thanks for letting me know not everyone in Canada can be cool. I'll have to keep that in mind for when I emigrate there someday hehe.

Really, no hard feelings at all. You seem like an okay guy, really.

I'm not sure if there was an insult that was supposed to be embedded in there somewhere because my point of view is different than yours, even without me explaining it, or if there was an invitation to a genuine debate.

[sst]

Originally Posted by vigilant3

I'm not sure if there was an insult that was supposed to be embedded in there somewhere because my point of view is different than yours, even without me explaining it, or if there was an invitation to a genuine debate.

No insult, and no invitation to debate. State your views if you want, I welcome it. But I'm not really interested in an in-depth discussion. You know, since it's something that kind of affects me, and something that really doesn't affect you.

[vigilant3]

Originally Posted by sst

No insult, and no invitation to debate. State your views if you want, I welcome it. But I'm not really interested in an in-depth discussion. You know, since it's something that kind of affects me, and something that really doesn't affect you.

Well you're very good at making assumptions and jumping to conclusions, but terrible at taking criticism I see.

How about this: I am willing, and am actually interested, in hearing your side of it. I won't even offer my side since you don't care, but I actually want to hear your viewpoint. I'm assuming you're homoual and are considering or have considered adoption. Am I correct? And if so, can you give me some insight on your overall outlook of homouality?

Again, no insults or even criticisms constructive or otherwise. Just honestly want to pick your brain and understand better for my own self.

[sst]

Originally Posted by vigilant3

Well you're very good at making assumptions and jumping to conclusions, but terrible at taking criticism I see.

How about this: I am willing, and am actually interested, in hearing your side of it. I won't even offer my side since you don't care, but I actually want to hear your viewpoint. I'm assuming you're homoual and are considering or have considered adoption. Am I correct? And if so, can you give me some insight on your overall outlook of homouality?

Again, no insults or even criticisms constructive or otherwise. Just honestly want to pick your brain and understand better for my own self.

I don't take criticism? I'm very good at it, I think. But maybe it doesn't come off that way.

It's been a pretty long day, but tomorrow I promise I'll have a discussion about this with you. You can count on it. Yes I have quite a viewpoint, I think.

[vigilant3]

Originally Posted by sst

I don't take criticism? I'm very good at it, I think. But maybe it doesn't come off that way.

It's been a pretty long day, but tomorrow I promise I'll have a discussion about this with you. You can count on it. Yes I have quite a viewpoint, I think.

Ok well i'd love to hear it, so let me know. And I felt you didn't take well to criticism because

a) you said your view was correct and mine was wrong
b) you said the topic doesn't affect me
c) you were saying i'm not "cool" because I had different stance.

How do you know any of that is true...? All assumptions, and poor responses to criticism...

but then again, maybe you were just joking and I couldn't tell from typing! Anyhow, get back to me on that viewpoint